Your Next Clear Move
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Your Next Clear Move
How to Be Fully Present (More Often) in Your Leadership
Leadership presence isn't a mystical quality—it's a practical skill that transforms your effectiveness and impact. Through this episode, we explore why being fully present matters: it's not about simply occupying space in a room, but about bringing your complete focus and energy to each interaction with your team.
When you're genuinely present as a leader, everything changes. You make better-informed decisions because you catch subtle cues and gather more comprehensive information. You build deeper relationships as your team members feel truly seen and heard. Most importantly, you create a culture where people feel valued, leading to higher engagement and productivity.
The challenge, as many leaders confess, is maintaining presence amid constant distractions. I share four game-changing mindset hacks to help: reframing multitasking as the distraction it truly is; using the five-second reset breathing technique; setting daily presence intentions; and watching your self-talk. These simple yet powerful approaches require no special equipment or extensive training—just commitment and practice.
Implementation is where many leadership concepts fall apart, so I offer practical steps to integrate presence into your daily leadership: start with just one meeting per day; physically remove distractions; listen to understand rather than respond; and use physical grounding techniques to anchor your attention. The 48-hour presence challenge gives you a concrete way to begin experiencing benefits immediately.
Ready to transform your leadership impact through the power of presence? The people you lead deserve your full attention, and you deserve to experience the clarity and confidence that comes from truly showing up. For more strategies on leadership clarity and mindset, visit debbiepetersonpeaks.com and discover how small shifts in presence create massive impacts in your leadership journey.
Hey, hello and welcome back. I am Debbie Peterson of Getting to Clarity, and this is another episode of the Getting to Clarity podcast. This is a place that you come to get the tips, tools, techniques that you need to create more of an impact in your leadership, but without sacrificing in your life. And today we're talking about how to be fully present in your leadership, because when I talk to young leaders, emerging leaders, in my leadership development cohorts, they say that there is so much going on that they find it really hard to be present when they need to be. So today I want to give you some tips and tools to help with just that. So stay tuned.
Speaker 2:So today I want to give you some tips and tools to help with just that, so stay tuned.
Speaker 3:Welcome to the Getting to Clarity podcast.
Speaker 2:The place where busy leaders discover how to create more success in their leadership journey with less sacrifice in their life. Here's your host, Debbie.
Speaker 1:Peterson of Getting to Clarity. All right, let's get into the topic at hand. You know, being a leader isn't just about being in the room. It's actually showing up and paying attention, connecting with those people that you lead, that you supervise, that you manage. And here's how to do it and why it matters. So why does your presence, why does being fully present, matter in your leadership? Well, you know, as a person on your team, they don't need you just sitting there. They don't need a body. They need you to be engaged, paying attention and bringing your focus and your energy into the moment. That means in person, on the phone or even in a virtual meeting. So when you're really paying attention, you have an opportunity as a leader, to take so much more away from each interaction with your team, because otherwise, if you're not there in the room, you're missing things. You have more information to make better decisions, you build stronger relationships because your people know that you're there with them, and you start to create a work environment where people feel valued and heard.
Speaker 1:And it's something so simple and this sounds great. But you know there are things going on right. There are distractions, there's stress, there's, you know, the pull of multitasking. Those things often get in the way, but being present is about sharpening your focus with others so that you are present with them, and this allows you to connect at another level. Therefore, you your benefit is you get to lead with more confidence. So the good news is we're not talking about, you know, hours of meditation to make this happen. We're talking about a few simple mindset shifts that can help you stay in the moment and lead with more confidence and more clarity. So what are these mindset hacks to stay present? Well, the first one is called the reframe, and what we're going to reframe is multitasking, because multitasking is actually a distraction. You may think that you're getting more done, but you're not. People think that multitasking is a skill like a badge of honor, but really it is just splitting your focus and you are spending more time. It makes you less effective in the long run.
Speaker 1:If you are answering emails during a meeting or if you're thinking about your next task or about another project while someone is speaking to you, one, I mean, that totally devalues that person who's there with you, because you're not truly present with them or engaged. So what would be a clear move that you could make the next time you're in a conversation. Well, focus only on the person speaking, as if you have to take notes on noticing their tone, noticing their facial expressions, noticing the words that they use, that you would be able to describe it to someone almost as if you know. You have to take these notes and pass it on. You have to capture the information and pass it on to someone else. This level of attention strengthens your leadership presence, naturally and instantly.
Speaker 1:Number two Use the five second reset. Well, what is that? If you're feeling overwhelmed, then take a quick pause before jumping into a meeting or a conversation to just tell yourself to let go of the distractions and bring you into this present moment. So how does that happen? Well, your next clear move is to take a deep breath in for five seconds, hold it for five seconds, exhale for five seconds. This is box breathing and you want to repeat this three times. The focus on the breathing slows your thoughts and brings you into the present moment. It makes you more engaged. It makes you more intentional.
Speaker 1:Here's another tip. Number three set your presence intention for the day. Being intentional about staying present is just like setting goals. It is instruction to your mind that this is what I want to do and it makes it easier to actually do it. So your next clear move each morning, you ask yourself what do I have going on? Where do I need to be fully present today? And then find your opportunity to start practicing this, whether it's a team meeting, a one-on-one conversation or even a brainstorming session with your group. When you decide in advance, it helps you to stay fully present when it matters most.
Speaker 1:Number four watch your words, because they are running the show. There is a quote in words there is life and in words there is death. Sounds pretty ominous, doesn't it? But the way that you talk to yourself matters. So if you tell yourself, oh, I don't have time for this conversation, your brain that's instruction is going to look for ways to check out right. So instead, shift your internal dialogue to this conversation is important and I choose to be present. So watch what it is that you're telling yourself. So your clear move is before stepping into a conversation, say okay, I am here, I am listening, I am present.
Speaker 1:Just speaking those words to yourself, that simple affirmation can significantly shift your focus. Put it on an index card or a post-it, pull it out when you need to Look at it before a meeting. Just a simple shift like that can really help. So who can help? Well, you don't have to figure this out on your own. I've given you some great tips, but sometimes you need a little outside help too. That could be a coach, it could be a mentor, it could be someone that you trust, that you work with, or maybe it's even a friend who is always present. I know in my corporate career there was a gal that I worked with. Her name was Melanie. This was her gift. It didn't matter if you were standing outside her door or what was going on. She was going to be making eye contact and be fully present with the person that she was talking to until they were finished. I mean, how she did this was just beautiful, and when she turned her attention to you, you felt seen, you felt fully heard and you knew that she was there in the room with you.
Speaker 1:So other tools might be NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming or HUNA practices. So NLP helps you to reframe negative thoughts. It can help you improve internal communication as well as external communication and really help you develop habits that keep you focused and engaged. So HUNA, which I also study, is rooted in Hawaiian wisdom and it offers techniques like breathwork and visualization oh my goodness, I couldn't get that out To cultivate more clarity and more presence when you are with other people. So both approaches give you practical tools to manage stress. They help you to refocus quickly and they help you to stay fully present in your leadership. So you can find out more about the groups that I have studied with at nlpcom or huna, h-u-n-a dot com, and you'll find some great things there.
Speaker 1:So how do you implement this? Okay, how do you implement being more present into your leadership? Well, start with just one meeting a day. No, and I'm not talking about you only have one meeting a day. That might not be realistic for you, but instead you choose one meeting that you're going to focus on, where you're going to commit to use these tools, or even one of these tools, so that you're being more present. Okay, you want to remove distractions. So, to set yourself up for success, put your phone away. Close any unnecessary tabs, things that are going to visually distract you. Silence notifications anything that can pull you away from the person. Silence notifications anything that can pull you away from the person. You can even use a conference room right, go somewhere so you're not in your office and can't be distracted. Maybe you even come out from behind your desk and you sit at a chair with a person or at another table.
Speaker 1:You also might want to consider listening to understand, not to respond. So, instead of thinking about what it is that you're going to say next or how you're listening to understand, not to respond. So, instead of thinking about what it is that you're going to say next or how you're going to respond, instead focus entirely on what is being said. It's okay to have a gap to think about how you want to respond after Use physical cues, even Plant your feet firmly on the ground. What that does is it grounds your energy. It helps you to stay present, straighten your posture and make sure that you're maintaining eye contact and, at the end of the day, just do a check-in. Ask yourself where did it work? Where was I fully present today? How did that feel? You know what worked, what didn't. And then how can you build upon that, where you can improve tomorrow, because this is not a one and done. This is a journey. This is like a muscle that you need to exercise.
Speaker 1:So what is your next clear move as a result of listening to this podcast episode. Well, I am giving you a 48 hour presence challenge. So for the next two days, pick one of these strategies and put it into work for you. So be fully present. Whether it's mindful listening, whether it's the five second reset with the breathing, or it's setting an intention for the day or for a meeting, commit to showing up fully. You deserve it. You deserve to be that kind of leader, and the people that you lead deserve to have you show up that way. So presence isn't just about where you are, it's about how you are with the people that you lead. When you master this, your leadership impact will expand in ways that you have never imagined. And if you would like more strategies on leadership, clarity and mindset, then head on over to my website at wwwdebbypetersonspeakscom. Until the next time, here is wishing you all the clarity that you deserve. Be good to yourself and bye-bye for now.
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